1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good. 2. When in doubt, just take the next small step. 3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. 4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 5. Pay off your credit cards every month. 6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree or disagree. 7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. 8. Save for retirement, starting with your first paycheck. 9. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. 10. Make peace with your space so it won't screw up to present. 11. It's OK to let your children see you cry. 12. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 13. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it. 14. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living or get busy dying. 15. You can get through anything if you stay put in today. 16. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write. 17. It's never t